The sense of humor is a quality that can get your child out of a lot of uncomfortable and unpleasant situations if he knows how to use it. In addition, it has a lot of implications on the affective level, helping him to be more optimistic, to enjoy more of his life, to develop his spontaneity and many more. It is important to raise a child by helping him / her develop this feeling. But is the child's simple smile a sense of humor? Find out more about children's sense of humor!
What is the sense of humor and what does it entail?
Psychologists claim that there are two parts involved in defining the sense of humor and in understanding it better:
a mental activity capable of discovering and appreciating events in a humorous way;
certain characteristics or situations that encourage humor.
How does the sense of humor in children evolve?
But not every child's smile should be interpreted as a sense of humor. Smile is the first form of manifestation of the sense of humor in babies. It may appear even from the first moments of life, but it is considered to have a physiological cause - the result of a spontaneous activity of the central nervous system.
Babies start to really smile after 2 weeks, and the stimuli are different for up to a year: from the face of the parents to various toys, objects and even funny grins from the parents.
His first forms appear at the age of 2 anisors, but you can't really call it a sense of humor. Then laughter begins to appear from 3 years on, as an essential part of child development. But the laughter reaction to certain incentives does not coincide with the sense of humor, but it is an important step and environment in which to raise a child to develop that sense.
At preschool you will find another humorous form of the child. He will laugh and react funny to seeing pictures and less talking. Also, associating an image with funny sounds can make you laugh.
Starting with the kindergarten, the first environment in which the sense of humor in itself can be born appears. Here I can learn what a joke means, when to do them, what role they play.
It is only beginning with the school age that children begin to understand what it means to use humor as a tool to juggle easily with them. On the school benches and in various environs jokes are beginning to appear, some better, some less good.
The sense of humor in children and the limits
A child's sense of humor can be a joy, but also a frustration for parents. They can shock parents through some rather inappropriate jokes that they bring home from school or from various backgrounds. Parents must accept that some forms of humor expressed by children are critical and inappropriate. Some may be aggressive, others may be insulting, etc.
The child's mood changes as the child grows and develops, becoming socially responsible. In vain do you criticize or yell at him for saying something ugly, if he does not fully understand the social content of that point. Here you interview as a parent, to help him in his responsible development.
Sometimes children need limits even when it comes to humor. Even if he does not quite understand what he is saying, he must be refocused towards quality humor. Do not laugh at the child's bad jokes, but explain to him why the joke is not appropriate and why he does not laugh.
It discourages the child if you see that he begins to make jokes on the account of others: on the physical aspect, on the way he dresses or even on the cognitive level.
You can help make the difference between a good joke and a less good one, being yourself and the whole family examples in this regard. Attention, because the little ones tend to take over what they hear in the family, and if poor quality conversations arouse laughter, he will bring to school or in the circle of friends these ways of communication are not exactly appropriate.
The sense of humor is learned!
The sense of humor is not an innate skill, but a quality that is learned over time. Parents play an essential role in raising a child with a sense of humor. This helps him in many ways and situations to maturity, not to mention that any man with a sense of humor of quality is more appreciated and considered by those around him, being perceived as:
How do you help a child develop their sense of humor and understand its implications?
Here are some ways to help your child develop a sense of quality humor:
first of all be an example to him;
provide an environment in which to grow quiet and comfortable (the sense of humor will not appear in a child raised in a stressed or traumatic environment);
be a fun family;
always laugh with him if the situations demand it; in this way he will realize what are the right circumstances in which the laughter must occur;
play as often as possible with your boyfriend;
help him develop his confidence in his own strengths;
often use benches at times spent in the family;
develop his sense of humor by using books, movies, cartoons, theater to acquire a proper conceptual framework in which the sense of quality humor usually appears and not the neighborhood jokes of colleagues etc.
Are there children who cannot have / develop the sense of humor?
Not all children can have a sense of humor. There are specific medical situations that prevent the development of this feeling:
other mental problems etc.
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